Hello Lover – I’m Amber Leitz and it’s an absolute pleasure to meet you.

I’m a Certified Erotic Blueprint Coach™ & The Erotic Headmistress here to seduce you deeper into your pleasure, power, wealth & eros. 

I want to take a moment to welcome you and your courageous, erotic heart for being here.

While helping women connect back to their eroticism, pleasure and sensuality is my passion I wasn’t always this confident and expressed myself…

Up until 6 years ago I was so sexually repressed from shame that I couldn’t even  self pleasure in front of my ex, talk to him about sex or own the fact that I was erotic.

I had extreme pelvic pain because of how repressed and filled with shame I was. In my early 20’s I struggled with urinary incontinence & vaginal numbness…which made sex either feel like nothing or totally excruciating. 

I felt ashamed and guilty every time I masturbated (in secret). 

I had my first orgasm at age 2 and while I didn’t have the words for it at that age, I now know that it was the most rapturous state of ecsatsy, divinity and pure erotic love that I could ever experience in my body, heart and soul all at once.

Unfortunately, like many (perhaps you, too?), I was shamed for my touching myself this way and my high sexual energy…

which caused me to become so shut down, numb and afraid of my own sexuality that I spent the next 22 years of my life swinging from being overly sexual back to being severly sexually repressed and closed down.

I also knew as a litle girl that I was deeply magical and witchy.

Sex and magic were natural to me, yet it didn’t feel safe to exist as a magical or sexual woman.

So I turned these parts of myself off and shoved them down into the deep dark box within my psyche and pussy.

After years of vaginal numbness, pain during penetration, sexual repression, low libido and struggles with extreme pelvic tension and urinary incontinence, I felt frustrated, hopeless and like something was seriously wrong with me.

I was in a relationship with a man who told me, “sex isn’t that important.” yet cheated on me constantly.

I would lie awake at night crying and wondering if things were ever going to change or if I was just destined for a life of boring, unfulfilling sex. (It wasn’t about him, by the way, I was shut down with myself too.)

I felt like something was missing…but I wasn’t sure what it was.

I also began to see how my own sexual unconscious and sexual shadows were emerging in unhealthy ways as a result of repressing my sexuality and living a life out of erotic integrity.

After two failed relationships in a row, I realized that I had no choice but to face my sexuality. It was time to come home to my erotic nature.

I had been suffering in silence for years about my pelvic tension, vaginal numbness and urinary incontinence so I sought out holistic methods.

In 2014 I was certified as a Holistic Health Coach through the Institute for Integrative Nutrition.

I remember one particular exercise called the ‘Wheel of Life’ where I had to rate each area of my life, including sex. That part of my wheel was practically a zero.

In the beginning of 2015, I embarked on a journey that I thought was just about healing my incontinence and numbness…

…little did I know that it would change everything.

I was initiated, step by the step, into my sensuality, pleasure, pussy and eroticism.

I studied and practiced with the Taoist jade egg, which helped me to bring sensation, strength, suppleness and tone back into my vagina and pelvic floor while awakening my sexual energy and full orgasmic potential.

I began to experience g-spot orgasms (solo and partnered), cervical orgasms, expanded external clitoral orgasms, extended orgasmic states, whole body orgasms and more!

I learned the ancient art of sex magic after a mysterious ‘Manifesting Ritual’ was gifted to me by a dear friend.

I began to study, practice and live pleasure, sensuality and erotic arts as if it was my lifeblood — because it is.

Over the past 6.5 years I’ve spent 24/7 365 days a year absolutely devoted to and intensively embodied in cultivating a sexual relationship with myself and my partner.

I’ve also personally invested over $30k when it comes to studying, learning and getting support around sex, love, relationships and pleasure.

 I devote my services and offerings to you, teaching sex magic, the jade egg practice, self pleasure rituals, how to expand, deepen and extend your orgasmic potential and how to awaken, build, harness and channel erotic energy in your body and life.

I want you to reach your full erotic potential and have all the money, love, hot sex & orgasms you desire!!

But wait…that’s not the end of my story.

ENTER THE EROTIC BLUEPRINTS™ CHAPTER OF MY STORY

In fall of 2019, I’d been doing sexuality coaching for over 5 years…but I still had a few things troubling my relationship with my current partner of 5 years, Andrew. 

Which lead me to signing up for the Erotic Blueprints™ Coaching Certification with my mentors, Jaiya & Ian, who created this revolutionary body of work. 

Before finding the Erotic Blueprints, my partner and I experienced some struggles after having our daughter (she’s 3 now) because we didn’t realize we were erotically wired in totally different ways.

So we’d often try to come on to each other in ways that didn’t work for the other.

As a Sexual he’d go straight for my pussy and as a Shapeshifter who is often in need of a LOT of attention before having my pussy touched, it would shut me down.

Then I’d get frustrated, feel like our sex life was doomed and that I’d never feel fully fulfilled.

Drama much? It feels super intense in the moment. After all, sex is a basic need for most of us.

Now we understand what each other needs, what turns us on and off and how we can seduce each other (consensually) and we have the language and tools to communicate it…in a way that’s hot and usually leads to orgasmic sex for both of us!

And if you think I’m only ever dressed all sexy in lingerie, please know this is about you finding your authentic eros.

It’s NOT about sexy photos, lingerie, being public about it or how many orgasms you can have.

It’s about YOU feeling like you can finally relax into, embody and express your true eroticism and grow from there.

Most of the time you’ll find me in my day to day life wearing a giant hoodie with fishnet stockings with a child on my hip.

I brag I’m the Erotic Headmistress that women come to when they want to…

💋Stop hiding and repressing their erotic nature, power & pleasure

💋Express and embody their uninhibited eroticism

💋Feel turned the fuck on & dripping with desire

💋Be reminded of their seductive, sensual, erotic nature

💋Be seduced deeper into their pleasure and Eros

💋Learn how to be their own lover & seduce the hell out of themselves, their lover(s) & life itself

💋Be dommed into consensual, sexy submission in some area of their life

💋Orgasmically create a life that leaves them dripping wet, throbbing with desire & turned the fuck on

💋Give themselves red-hot erotic approval & get right with & get off on their shadows

Want some of this goodness for yourself?

Class is in session, bitches. *cracks flogger against ass cheek & slithers onto red velvet couch*

As the Erotic Headmistress I’m part dominatrix, part seductress and part pleasure hedonist.

I’m devoted to pleasure and eros in every moment.

If you choose to play with me, your WHOLE life will radically transform.

Your whole life will blow up in the most orgasmic way.

Dare to find out…whether you’re ready to throw your money at me or you wanna be seduced a little longer with FREE goodies, I’ve got what you need!💋

I’m here to guide you as you remember, connect back to and fully come home to your erotic nature, pleasure and sensuality.  

LISTEN TO THE RECLAIMING YOUR EROTICISM PODCAST!!

I have one of the hottest podcasts! My community loves binging it all day (pretending we’re hanging out like bff’s) or while sipping red wine, soaking in the tub or exploring nature…so if you want to uplevel your life through the erotic, binge the podcast!

Grab your wine or tea & settle in. 

JOIN MY SEXY SISTERHOOD & EROTIC COMMUNITY FOR WOMEN LEADERS ON FACEBOOK!

If you want to join a sensual, sexy community of women leaders who want to do leadership in a rich, hot, erotic way, then my free private Facebook group, RICH HOT EROTIC LEADERSHIP, is for you!

Come & play, lover.

GRAB A GLASS OF RED WINE OR A CUP OF TEA & PERUSE THE BLOG

Because I’m such a provocative bad bitch, YouTube suspended my account after 6 years and 38K subscribers so if you’re scrolling the blog & my videos are down (temporarily) just know they’ll be back!

I have tons of erotic musings in written, video & podcast form for you to peruse at your leisure. 

JOIN THE ACADEMY OF EROS & EXPLORE MY ONLINE COURSES

I offer several in depth online pleasure courses that open once or twice per year, including the Sexy Powerful & Confident Coach, Ravished Open by Money & Seductress.

You can also check out older programs that I rarely offer, but are available to do as home study at your leisure.